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Kirsty-Halfpenny

A veteran interview with

Kirsty Halfpenny

Kirsty Halfpenny’s husband Andy served with the Coldstream Guards. Although he had left the service before they met, the mental and physical scars have affected their marriage and their son.

Watch as Kirsty describes Andy’s deterioration and how becoming a part of Help for Heroes’ Bands of Brothers and Sisters has thrown them a lifeline.

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About Kirsty Halfpenny

Kirsty met Andy after he had left the army through ill health. Andy was very proud to have served in the Coldstream Guards and paratroopers but never really told Kirsty everything about his time in military service. Andy suffered a number of incredibly serious injuries during his time in the army which have left him with deteriorating health. The pair have been through years of medical tests, differing diagnoses and uncertainty trying to get to the root of Andy’s health problems. Kirsty finally felt some relief when she was put in touch with an army doctor and the military took over Andy’s care. She felt the military took responsibility for Andy and were much clearer and more decisive in suggesting treatment. The birth of their son was both a joy but also brought challenges as Kirsty had to manage so much.

Kirsty describes how there have been so many near fatal moments with Andy’s health that they try to live in the now as much as possible. Discovering Help for Heroes has also made a big difference in their lives. Andy can spend time with people who relate and he now has hobbies they never thought possible. Kirsty joined Band of Sisters which she didn’t think would be for her but she absolutely loved the respite weekend she was able to attend and has remained in contact with some other women, valuing the ability to speak openly with others who can fully empathise. They even take respite breaks as a family and their son enjoys the fuss made of him. Kirsty wanted to share their story to make others aware that help and support is available and essential, even if people feel they are coping and don’t need it.

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Interviewed by:
Martin Bisiker
Reviewed by:
Lizzie Gray

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A veteran interview with

Kirsty Halfpenny

Kirsty-Halfpenny

Kirsty Halfpenny’s husband Andy served with the Coldstream Guards. Although he had left the service before they met, the mental and physical scars have affected their marriage and their son.

Watch as Kirsty describes Andy’s deterioration and how becoming a part of Help for Heroes’ Bands of Brothers and Sisters has thrown them a lifeline.

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Halfpenny, Kirsty. A Veteran Interview with Kirsty Halfpenny. Interview by Martin Bisiker. Legasee, 23 Feb. 2020 https://www.legasee.org.uk/veteran/kirsty-halfpenny/. Accessed 23 May. 2025.
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Halfpenny, K. (2020, February 23). A Veteran Interview with Kirsty Halfpenny [Interview by Martin Bisiker]. Legasee. Retrieved May 23, 2025, from https://www.legasee.org.uk/veteran/kirsty-halfpenny/
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Halfpenny, Kirsty. 2020. A Veteran Interview with Kirsty Halfpenny. Interview by Martin Bisiker. Legasee, February 23. Accessed May 23, 2025. https://www.legasee.org.uk/veteran/kirsty-halfpenny/
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Halfpenny, K. (2020). A Veteran Interview with Kirsty Halfpenny. [Interviewed by Martin Bisiker]. Legasee, 23 February. Available at https://www.legasee.org.uk/veteran/kirsty-halfpenny/ (Accessed: 23 May 2025)
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Halfpenny, K. A Veteran Interview with Kirsty Halfpenny [Internet]. Interview by M. Bisiker. Legasee; 2020 Feb 23 [cited 2025 May 23]. Available from: https://www.legasee.org.uk/veteran/kirsty-halfpenny/
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Content warning// This interview contains discussions of sensitive topics such as PTSD and addiciton which some viewers may find distressing. If you are affected by these topics, please consider seeking support from a trusted person or organisation.   Kirsty’s partner, Glenn, completed two tours of Afghanistan but it was a tragic accident during a training exercise that turned their lives upside down. Glenn was parachuting down from 30 000 feet when he was blown off course, landed in a tree then fell to the ground. The result was a devastating spinal injury. After a period in hospital, Glenn comes home and Kirsty works hard to keep their lives on track while holding down her job and taking care of Glenn. The couple had never really spent a great deal of time living together before this and it puts a strain on their relationship, especially when Glenn is prescribed morphine which he struggles with. Glenn spends a period at the Headley Court rehabilitation centre where he receives regular medication and physiotherapy but without access to this at home, Kirsty notices a big difference in Glenn’s behaviour. He becomes increasingly angry, he won’t leave the house and Kirsty starts to suspect he has PTSD. Kirsty suggest they get a dog and this becomes a big help as Glenn has to take responsibility for it. Kirsty is even impressed that she managed to get Glenn on a holiday to Cuba. While Glenn is still managing tremendous pain he is also working hard on his rehabilitation and can walk for short periods. Kirsty reflects that they both had to grow up very quickly to be able to deal with this trauma. This experience made Kirsty realise she wants more from her life and she is now training to be a nurse. Although Kirsty joined Band of Sisters she admits it took her a while to fully engage. She wants to share her story so other know about the help and support available, she wonders if she had asked for help sooner might this have been an easier process.
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